So, you've somewhat successfully met someone you're fond of ....Well,
fond of enough to get more acquainted on a one-on-one basis. Many thoughts race through your mind in anticipation: "Will we connect?", "Will I be attracted to her under any light fixture?", "What should I wear?". Yes, believe it or not, what you wear can say a lot in your first impression.
Think of it as a job interview. You're accentuating the best parts of yourself in order to secure long-term employment in a new relationship. Don't therapists always say; "A relationship is something you need to work at!". What you wear tells your date a lot about how you carry yourself and quite possibly your exceptions.
If you're sitting down to dinner or just grabbing a beverage (hot or cold), you should ensure present-ability. Think about it... She's putting the effort in to make herself look good for you, right? What do you suppose she'll think if you show up in a pair of sneakers, shorts, and a t-shirt?
You can never go wrong with any sort of collared shirt (buttoned or Polo). A pair of slacks and a nice pair of shoes shows a touch of effort. The most important component to remember is to have your clothes form-fitting. Baggy = Sloppy. Also, it wouldn't hurt to pull out an iron once in a while.
Attention to detail matters, whether you're aware of it yourself or not.
Believe me, this is nothing compared to the efforts women put into their presentation, just to receive a small compliment from you.
....and trust me me, compliments go a long way.
